Rizky Camelia Putri

Why we fall in love with someone we cannot have? Do you feel familiar with the title? Or have you ever experienced things like that? If you feel the same way just like me, we can laugh together. But the question is, why is this happening? Isn't that mean you and him are not meant to be together? In my personal opinion, fall in love with someone I cannot have gives me an excitement where I should push myself harder just to get his attention. I know it is not healthy but my brain is keep going without any reasons. But it was in the past. Now, thinking about it is really wasting my time. Why do we fall in love with someone we can't have? Because of the lack of excitement that a “done deal” offers, you may find even the most attractive person boring when compared to a person you just can’t have. Part of this could be your romantic style, which leans more toward an obsession with unrequited love, or it could be a simpler matter of "FOMO" — the fear of missing out. "F

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If I have something special or someone gives me something special, I will definitely take care of it pretty well. Just like what I got a couple months ago. I adopted a kitten. Never have I understood why I decided to adopt her. I mean I love cat but I never thought to have it as a pet. I was thinking that taking care of it wasn't my cup of tea. I don't like to clean its litter box, I don't like that my cat goes to my bed, I don't like to keep my eyes open. I mean, I don't even take care of myself well then how could I take care that tiny little kitten in my house perfectly? Back of what I said, "If I have something, I would definitely take care of it pretty well." Means if I have kitten in my house, I would take care of it and if I think that I couldn't do it from the beginning, I will spontaneoustly refuse to adopt her. Did you get it? Like, I don't want  to do things that I couldn't handle. It's frustating. So a couple months ago, I took

I can never get enough to someone who tried to text someone else by asking about something that supposed not to asked. It is perfectly okay if you asked that for one or two times but it is getting boring if you asked that for million of times and I have come to the point where I am anything but interested to you. If you are a type a person who likes to stay to your phone most of the time, I could say that you're kind of person who like to spend most of your time by yourself. On the other side, you probably puzzled about what things to say. Like, "umm, what should I say?, is it okay to say this? will she/he will likes when I say things like that? and many more. Or perhaps, you are being cautious about what words to say. Don't worry! you are still normal because I used to do the same way. Most of the time I've met people, they tend to open the conversation by saying "hi" only. I wouldn't judge them if they don't know how to start a good conversation or

"Okay it is still at 12pm, I need some hours to build this amazing house. Wait, it is at 5pm right now. Fair enough I will finish it after I create my lovely sims. OH crap.. it is at 10pm now for real? Okay I will end it by waiting the kids graduate from university." aaannd... I finally close my laptop at 1am :) Have you ever spent your whole day by playing Sims? I bet you would did the same way like me because that game is super addicting. I mostly spent my whole day by playing sims. Either it is for building a house, creating sims, making lots of generations, or trying some things new which I never knew it before.  My only one question is, can my life as perfect as sims I create? The answer is definetely NO  Back when I was in primary school until elementary school, I like to play doll, barbie, houses, and cooking. and when I turned into senior high school, I started to design some houses through books. Once it finished, I sometimes played it by myself in my free time. Talk