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WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

Being in love with someone whom you love is the most beautiful thing happened. I 100% admit it. But in a couple of months later, I didn't feel that spark anymore. Have you ever felt like that? A friend of mine said that maybe I haven't in loved with that person yet, the others told me that maybe I actually didn't need in relationship. Ask yourself! My current answer is, maybe because I haven't found the right one yet so I become like this. I never be so 'bucin' when I'm in love with someone. Things that I did for bucin only for some certain things which is not that extreme or too much. For example, talking through phone until 2 hours, video calling for 1 hour (trust me I'm not into video call so much), and waiting for someone's text. I think because I'm growing to be a mature woman right now, my desire about man is on point. I want someone like this and like that. I realized that I'm too idealist on finding someone but I call it being reali

THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES BOOK REVIEW

Untuk tulisan kali ini, gue akan tulis sedikit panjang dan gue pengen nulis sedetail mungkin dan share apa yang udah gue baca karena menurut gue ini adalah hal yang sangat penting untuk dipelajari.  Sebelum jauh membahas mengenai isi buku ini, gue mau buat pendahuluan mengenai apa itu Love Language? The 5 Love Languages Book adalah buku dimana kalian akan diberikan edukasi mengenai bahasa cinta yang terdiri dari Words Of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gift, Acts Of Service, dan Physical Touch. Menurut gue mengenal love language itu adalah hal yang sangat penting. Karena bahasa yang kita utarakan belum tentu sama dengan pasangan kita begitupun sebaliknya dan apa yang kita utarakan, belum tentu pasangan kita mengerti. Apa yang kita anggap cinta, belum tentu pasangan akan merasa seperti itu.  We must be willing to learn our spouse’s primary love language if we are to be effective communicators of love Gue suka dimana Dr. Chapman memulai tulisan di bukunya dengan sebuah percakapan di

THINGS TO DO DURING COVID-19 PANDEMIC

The Covid-19 is still not over yet. Especially in Indonesia. Since it was officially announced on February, Corona virus pandemic has flipped our lives upside-down, that we are asked to #stayathome and minimise human contact and reduce the spread of the virus. As my concert that I should be joint on this November, going out with friends to celebrate their birthday, buying Famima coffee for morning working, taking a public transportation a.k.a Transjakarta to go to work, and going out to anywhere without any hesitations, I can never do that anymore and I never know when this situation will be normal. Let's just pray that this pandemic will be over real soon.  As the government ask us to stay at home, lot of us are living under quarantine and lockdown right now. Although remaining inside is a good way to protect ourselves and others from the coronavirus, and is an important measure to help "flatten the curve" of daily cases that put pressure on our health care system. Wha

SKINCARE ROUTINE

Have you invested yourself in skincare beauty? Because I did. You may not think too much about your skincare routine, but the truth is you should. Your skin is one of the largest organs your body has, and it works hard everyday to protect our bodies from harmful elements. You may think your skin is healthy today, but did you know your skin cells shed just about every minute of everyday? This means the healthy skin you have today will be shedding tomorrow, so if you don’t care for it now you could lose it to dull, less than perfect skin. I don't believe if someone was born with a healthy skin.  You genuinely believe that? I mean yes there are some but not all women are like that. Even artist and actor spent their money for taking care of their skin. They don't look as glowing as like that before. You don't believe me? I'm welcome you to take a look of their old photo. Isn't it different from before to right now? Here's a disclaimer:   I never mention that we nee

SOCIETY

Last week, I met my old friend from the same University and she also someone that joined student exchange program with me in USM. Her name is Cut Mutia. We decided to meet at Lippo Puri Mall because that was the strategic place for both of us to meet. Not too far and not too close. I was glad meeting her after a long time because she was kind of introvert person. It was hard to contact her due to her personality who didn't like to reply someone's message. She enjoyed her time like all the time. Another reason why I was excited to meet her because we both have the same vision and mission about the future and we like to have kind of deep talk, talking about the future, the purpose of life, love life story, marriage, privilage thing, and many more. After meeting her, I was fully reenergize and I was excited to start my own journey that I was scare of before. Besides, we reminiscing our moments when we were in Penang. We laughed a lot for stupid things that happened and we couldn&

BLIND DATE : ADVANTAGES, TIPS, AND WHAT YOU SHOULD BE AWARE OF

If you know me pretty well, you must be known that I am the type of person who likes to use social media a lot. Why? I simply looking for a friend to chat because those kind of applications could broaden my circle of friends. Of course if you use it well and meet the right person. You need to be extremely selective on picking a person to chat and to meet. Speaking of meeting, let me just call it as a blind date to someone whom I just met from application eventhough there are many conversations going through texting before. Did you know? Believe it or not, blind date could boost your own self in many ways. Self-confidence is the feeling that you can accomplish something that might be challenging or impossible for others. It is based on prior successes, but it also comes from overcoming occasional setbacks. Let me point you out some advantages of blind date : Blind date could boost your self confidence As you go out with many men or women with different personality and type, there will