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HOW TO BE A GOOD LISTENER

Have you ever shared your feeling to someone and all of sudden she said, "Oh yeah I've ever got something worse than that. Listen.. Don't you remember when I got rejected  from that guy? Have I ever told you this thing? Hhmm I was kinda upset, bla bla bla" or like this, "Keep scrolling her phone and didn't give any responses at all." or maybe the worst was like this, "It's okay. You just need to be patient. That is how life going." Then what is the point of me telling you my story, son of a bitch? Oh I am so sorry to write a bad word but whatever screw that. I bet some of you ever got some responses above. But have you ever thought that maybe the mistake doesn't come from the communican but it is come from  the situation? Maybe at that time she was doing something but you just kept talking. Maybe at that time she wasn't in a good mood as well but you wanted to be listened, or maybe you were just too selfish that made people w