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Last week, I met my old friend from the same University and she also someone that joined student exchange program with me in USM. Her name is Cut Mutia. We decided to meet at Lippo Puri Mall because that was the strategic place for both of us to meet. Not too far and not too close. I was glad meeting her after a long time because she was kind of introvert person. It was hard to contact her due to her personality who didn't like to reply someone's message. She enjoyed her time like all the time. Another reason why I was excited to meet her because we both have the same vision and mission about the future and we like to have kind of deep talk, talking about the future, the purpose of life, love life story, marriage, privilage thing, and many more.

After meeting her, I was fully reenergize and I was excited to start my own journey that I was scare of before. Besides, we reminiscing our moments when we were in Penang. We laughed a lot for stupid things that happened and we couldn't stop thinking about it. Oh I wish we could go back to the past.

First thing first, I told her about my love life story that I get dumped by someone. Oh.. we both like to read and watch kelascinta.com aka Lovable lady. if you don't know about relationship yet, I'm highly recommend you to watch their YouTube channel. It's really educate you about relationship well. What I like about her was, she never passive and said yes or no on something. She leaded someone and said "That's not how it works. You'd better do this.. etc." She gave solution, listened patiently, and supported. Besides she gave me an out of the box answer that I couldn't imagine before and that was what I needed in friendship thing.

As we walked to look for some clothes and went to several shops, she suddenly asked me, "What is your purpose of life?." Mine is sharing. I like to share thing but it's in something that makes people learn. I answered, mine is educating people because I like to be a lecturer in the future and that have to be achieved before I get married. She said she wanted to make a youtube channel about debate and asked me to joined and I was contented.

We walked around and stopped by in a place where there was a live music outside Mall. We didn't know about the band and we didn't really care at all because the point was we had a quality time. There were many things happened between us. She becomes a lady now, she shared her family's experienced, she gave me some tips, but one thing I know for sure that she always be a mature person whom I know.

One thing I realized, I rarely had such a deep talk with anyone else after such a long time. But having this kind of conversation made me felt satisfied.

Hello readers... first of all I wanted to say sorry because I just updated my post (Well I don't know whether you are my active readers or not but if you are wondering, I will explain it right here). I was kind of busy back then because I just moved to a new office and many things happened to myself. Sometimes I felt quite tired in holiday Geez, am I gettin older? Sometimes I filled it by having a quality time with myself, with my friends, or with my family. And.. I just realized that I didn't write my blog for three months! (what the heck Camel).

Alright enough for the excuses. I promise to myself that I will be more active to write right here once a month. 
See ya 

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